I am formally by law divorced in 2013. In 2012 we seperated. She requested mariage-end. She liked to mine me as her slave after divorce, thinking she was still married with all the benefits, but no burden, loyalty, goodness or fairness. I think she still has to benefit from the marriage. She has no idea that if she was not married she would live in Africa as a nun, as she had planned, but not succesful.